Breaking up is hard to do

I apologize for my absence on the blog. The last month has been pretty intense. I have struggled to find the words to show my deep appreciation for the people of St. Paul’s Delray Beach. Our sendoff has been spectacular; everything I could have ever wanted and far more. From a very special final dinner with the vestry that included sendoff prayers with the delightful and inspiring Seekers group, to an amazing staff dinner/celebration at the Colony Beach club, to a wonderful reception attended by well over 140 St. Paul’s parishioners at Jim and Ellen Walton’s house, to my final 3 services, each with special moments during and at dinner or receptions after. The people of this parish gifted us with an amazing purse which will help SO much during our time of uncertainty and searching, but far more than that they have gifted us with an incredible display of love, prayer, laughter and tears. 

I will miss St. Paul’s deeply and the Delray Beach area as well. We stayed longer than we ever thought we would and have cherished every moment. We leave on Thursday and will update folks as to what is going on in our journey. And….I should have a LOT of time to keep the blog posts coming, so stay tuned. If enough folks would like the daily prayer blog back, please just comment on this post and I will respond soon.

I leave you with the words from an old Elton John song (lyrics by Bernie Taupin. duh). It’s from the Captain Fantastic and the Brown Dirt Cowboy album….

Curtains”

I used to know this old scarecrow

He was my song, my joy and sorrow

Cast alone between the furrows

Of a field no longer sown by anyone

I held a dandelion

That said the time had come

To leave upon the wind

Not to return

When summer burned the earth again

Cultivate the freshest flower

This garden ever grew

Beneath these branches

I once wrote such childish words for you

But that’s okay

There’s treasure children always seek to find

And just like us

You must have had

A once upon a time

The Countdown has begun

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The last few weeks have been amazing, challenging, rewarding, beautiful. And scary. We welcomed grandbaby number two on October 23rd – the beautiful Eliza James Dreyfus arrived at 8 lbs 11 oz of smiles and sweetness (she really does smile a lot). Daughter Chelsea is doing well and was a laboring rock star. My wife, the labor/delivery nurse, and John, Chelsea’s husband and the amazing Eliza’s Dad,  were labor coaches supreme and after two hours of difficult labor, following a night of induction, Eliza arrived and our world is brighter because she is here.

Her cousin Juby, now 5 months old and an incredible delight to us all, was there to greet her (along with his mother, Mackenzie, my middle child) and Uncle Joseph came up a few days later to meet his niece. John’s parents were there of course and his two brothers and their families welcomed Eliza soon after birth. I spent a few days at their home before returning to Delray and Jennifer is on her way right now. On her way to the countdown.

November 8th marks my last day at St. Paul’s. This week, just as the others leading up to it, has been filled with lots of hugs and some tears. We have begun counting off the  “last things” – last Day School board meeting was last week, last Vestry is this Sunday, last Day School chapel will be Tuesday, each day bringing some more “last times”.  Two sermons to go, one baptism, one funeral, lots of farewells, some wonderful celebrations, and not a small amount of sadness will be the order of the week. I really love these folks. St. Paul’s is an amazing place and the Reverend Paul Kane will be really blessed to be their Rector. And they have done well in calling Paul, he will do wonderful work alongside some pretty special people.

Meanwhile the question of the day/week/month continues to be – “so, where are you going? Have they assigned you to your next church yet?” Many Episcopalians are confused about how discernment and search processes work and most assume interims are just assigned a new spot when one ends. Of course for a lot of interim priests it does kind of work that way – although not assigned they do readily move from one interim position to the next. My interim time here has been much longer than anticipated (to our delight), but I have been unsuccessful thus far finding my next cure. I do not necessarily want to do another interim gig, but I am not opposed to that if the right fit comes along. It is staring into the unknown that is difficult.

Difficult, but not distressing. For we know we have been called and as St. Paul urges us in Ephesians, we do our best to answer the call, to live, as he begs, “a life worthy of the calling to which you have been called, with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, making every effort to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace”. We do not always live up to such lofty aspirations, in fact I rarely do.  It is the journey that matters, the reaching for the goal, the attempt to practice what we preach, the hope and faith and trust that God is in the midst of all this and we will in time understand fully what we now can only wonder.

And we are not alone, nor is this only about whatever “church job” I can find. Jennifer is now an official, board certified Pediatric Nurse Practitioner. Goodness she worked so hard to earn her degree and pass boards – despite much adversity and disruption in our lives, she reached for something she thought was beyond her capability (although her family never doubted), and she GOT IT. She has lived a life worthy of the calling to which she has been called and has much to offer the world as a PNP. Maybe our next stop focuses on her work. We just don’t know. We just move on in faith.

This week will test us. This is the hard stuff. Lots to celebrate, lots of necks to hug and times to remember and prayers to offer and blessings to give and receive. We have been so blessed to wander with such an amazing body of Christ and community for a short while. I will miss this place terribly. Yet the countdown is winding low. The time has come. I can’t wait to see what’s next.

(stay tuned for a post on “breath of life” prayer, which I am leaning on pretty hard right now. Lord Jesus, show me your way).

Prayer, Tuesday September 29, 2015 – the new Presiding Bishop

Acts 8 Movement provides prayer calendar leading up to PB’s installation

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On November 1st the Right Reverend Michael Curry, Bishop of North Carolina, will be installed as the Presiding Bishop and Primate of the Episcopal Church in a ceremony at the National Cathedral in Washington, D.C. (noon and it will be webcast).

The Acts 8 Movement (click HERE) has set up a prayer calendar encouraging Episcopalians everywhere to pray for Bishop Curry and the Episcopal Church during the month of October as we lead up to the installation. The Acts 8 Movement is led by a group of Episcopalians working hard for mission and evangelism, I have written a few things for their website and I am a big supporter of the work they (we) are doing.

Click HERE for the prayer calendar, which includes suggestions for prayer each day of October, and I encourage you to join with thousands of Episcopalians praying for Bishop Curry and the church.

St. Paul’s Cycle of Prayer – Tuesday – Seekers and other Young Adults, those in our community who are unchurched, our community and those in need, especially Family Promise and CROS ministries

Praying through transition

Praying through transition

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My friends, thank you for reading this blog. I will continue posting to the blog, but not sure if I will be doing daily prayer mediations going forward. Maybe. Still thinking and praying about that.

But remember – if you have subscribed to the blog (which you can do on the left hand side of the page), you will always get an email when a new post is available. And I will continue to put links on Facebook and Twitter for the same thing. ALSO I have added little social media icons, you can click on one (like the one for Facebook) and it will share my post on your social media, in other words it will generate a link on your Facebook page to my blog post. A great way to share with others, if you are so inclined. I hope you will.

St. Paul’s has issued a call for their new Rector, the Reverend Paul Kane, who will start the 1st of December (with some office time ahead of that). Congratulations! I am so happy for Paul and excited about this new era at St. Paul’s. Consequently my last weekend of services is November 7-8.

This morning in my prayer time I was reminded of this scripture passage from Romans. When I was in discernment about going into ordained ministry, I carried this passage around in my wallet and took it out often, read it, prayed it, and tried my best to live it. I hope you will pray it with me.

I appeal to you therefore, brothers and sisters, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual
worship. Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your minds, so that you may discern what is the will of God-what is good and acceptable and perfect. Romans 12:1-2

St. Paul’s Cycle of Prayer – Monday – Children, youth, and family ministries of St. Paul’s and those who teach and work with our youth. Our music program and choirs.

Romans 12:1,2

 

Prayer, Sunday September 27, 2015

New Zealand Book of Common Prayer: Night Prayer

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I am leading our Seekers group tonight and will include one of my favorite prayers from the New Zealand prayer book. I offer it to you this evening as well:

 

I will lie down in peace and take my rest,

for it is in God alone that I dwell unafraid.

Let us bless the Earth-maker, the Pain-bearer, the Life-giver,

let us praise and exalt God above all for ever.

Lord, it is night.

The night is for stillness.

Let us be still in the presence of God.

It is night after a long day.

What has been done has been done;

what has not been done has not been done;

let it be.

The night is quiet.

Let the quietness of your peace enfold us,

all dear to us, and all who have no peace.

The night heralds the dawn.

Let us look expectantly to a new day,

new joys, new possibilities.

In your name we pray. Amen.

O God of love and mercy, grant us, with all your people, rest and peace. Amen.

St. Paul’s Cycle of Prayer – Sunday – Clergy, Staff, Wardens and Vestry and the Rector Search (click HERE to read the Rector Search prayer)

Itinerant: noun. a person who alternates between working and wandering.